To Be Beautiful Means To Be Yourself

To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself. ~Thich Nhat Hanh

Growing up black in a predominately all white community in the 70’s/80’s was quite the challenge.  I longed to fit in and not always be the person that stood out in a crowd.  I remember always wishing I was short or petite and not my tall, gawky self. That I had blue or hazel eyes instead of my boring dark brown ones; had lighter skin so I could sunbathe with my friends and not look ridiculous. Long silky hair that would blow in the wind instead of my kinky curls that just hung there. 

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Fast forward, 40 plus years and I can tell you that I love that I am taller than the average woman and that I don’t slouch, have dark skin that sun worshipers would die for, brown eyes that look like my mother’s and frizzy hair that is long enough to be put in a ponytail and hidden underneath a baseball cap.  And I will be the first to tell you that walking into a room with all eyes on me, in other words standing out in a crowd, is quite empowering.

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